Standing attentively in the church lobby, he removes his hands from his pockets to check his collar, his hair, his tie and again his collar. I thought he looked sharp. Great, really. But he didn't appear to feel likewise. As I try to banter with him, he asks me where I want him to stand, and if he should smile.
These are the symptoms of a groom who is about to see his bride for the first time.
I tell him to take a breath and attempt to soften his expression with a bit of dry humor. He needs to smile. Believe me, I've been in his shoes. (Almost one year ago, BTW, but that's for another post.)
As he sighs and forces a smile, I see a brilliant white dress appear over his shoulder. Carefully trailed by the helpful hands of her maid of honor, she brings her gleaming smile into the lobby, and he brings himself around on his heels.
The effortless, natural version of his smile comes forth, directly reflecting the beauty of his bride.
They promptly approach each other with silent, gleaming observations. She asks him how she looks, and he answers by smiling even brighter.
It happens for every bride and groom, but this type of scene highlights every wedding day in its own unique way. Some are reserved with respect, some scream with joy, some cry, some bring forth cheek-cramping smiles.
In any fashion, I'm always honored to be there, out of the way. Silently and respectfully recording a meaningful moment, just over a shoulder.
Congratulations Brittany and Scott! I was sincerely honored to be part of your big day. THANK YOU!
The pictures turned out amazing, John. They now populate our apartment in various sizes. :) Thank you for being part of our day. It was both fun and memorable.
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